I hear it .... and I hear you, as you are always saying, “I need to lose weight for a boudoir session… I’ll schedule…maybe next year, or as soon as I lose these 20 pounds.”
Hearing the majority of women asking this is so so heartbreaking.
Being able to change this is exactly why I love shooting boudoir.
Let me break it the fuck down for you.... as I also have questions.
Why are you waiting? What if you don’t lose weight or what if you gain more weight? I know… that’s negative thinking, but hey, life happens!
I want you to love the body you are in right now. I promise if you trust me just a bit, you will leave my studio feeling like the most beautiful woman in the world.
And hey, if you do lose weight, you can book another session but more on that later....
WHY YOU DON’T NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT FOR A BOUDOIR SESSION.
If you feel like you need to lose a few pounds, you’re probably lacking confidence.
A boudoir session is the perfect way to embrace the skin you’re in.
Time and time again as I photograph you I hear you ladies let the weight go of "losing the weight" and ... it shows. Confidence is pretty much our #1 return on your investment for a boudoir experience.
YOU CAN BE CONFIDENT IN ME…
Even if you’re struggling to find confidence in yourself, you can have confidence in me.
I am an expert in posing and I am not going to put you in positions that don't flatter you ... as I have photographed over 250 sessions in just 2 years, so I have a bit of experience in posing and lighting a woman’s body.
Every single body is beautiful! And if you don’t believe me, let me show you!
You are far more worthy than a number on the scale or the size jeans you wear! Do not let that number dictate how you feel about yourself. You are fucking gorgeous and powerful regardless of your shape and size. That number absolutely does not define you! Boudoir is about capturing your true inner beauty, your true self, the beauty in your eyes that reflects your beautiful soul, the beauty behind that smile, the beauty of those killer fucking curves that are uniquely yours and yours alone! Every last person on this earth has imperfections. Own them and wear them proudly!
Do not forget you are your own worst enemy. No one is even thinking about what it is you dislike about your body, trust me they are too damn worried about focusing on the things they hate about themselves. I promise. No one is judging you but you.
When it comes to boudoir photography, I can totally assure you that with the right posing, lighting and wardrobe you will forget hating all of those self claiming flaws. Instead my mission is to help you view yourself in a different positive light and fall madly in love with yourself flaws and all! Because THAT is what boudoir is truly about. Loving the gorgeous imperfect skin you are in. By the time your session is over you will feel more confident than ever! I guarantee it.
Honestly unless you are going for a complete body change and planning on losing like 50 or more pounds you don’t need to sweat it.
And oh, BTW ... The camera doesn't actually add 10 pounds you know???
And if you are going to do major body change wouldn’t it be amazing to see the transformation? This is where you book a second session to celebrate that.
